#1 Leave Little Notes in Unexpected Places!
You want her to know that you are thinking of her throughout the day. You will be her hero if you do this! Women love little surprises, and after she finds a love note from you tucked into her coat pocket (or on the dashboard or in her lunch bag), she will be bragging to all of her girlfriends about what a wonderful man she has.
I can't tell you where to put them, you will have to get creative. I have left notes for my man in the plastic bag that I put his sandwich in, under the shaving cream, inside a folded pair of underwear, in his coat pocket, Bible, briefcase, suit pocket, and over the visor in his car, just to name a few.
#2 When She Looks or Smells Great, Tell Her!
Don't assume she knows she looks or smells good. Everyone wants and needs to hear when others notice them. She will always want to look and smell nice for you if you let her know how much you appreciate the effort. She married you because she wanted to make you happy—let her know she's succeeding!
When I was much younger, I was a bit self-centered and didn't have many friends. I took a self-assessment to learn what I could do to change and discovered that people are much more pleasant to be around if they take the focus off themselves and notice the good in others instead. So give her a compliment!
You cannot believe how hard this was for me in the beginning. It felt awkward and insincere, but I kept using this technique, and it worked. I began noticing the good in others, and by telling them what I noticed, it made me feel better about myself. I was no longer self-centered, had lots of friends, and began receiving compliments myself!
Funny how that works: Give, and you get back a hundredfold!
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#3 Put Some Music in Your Life
Music always lightens the mood. When she gets home from work, after dinner, or just before you two drift off to sleep, put on some music you know she likes.
I know after I have had a stressful day at work, music will not only calm me down, but will put me in a much better mood so that I am more receptive to my husband's advances. Then, at bedtime, I feel soothed and relaxed and yes, even romantic. Play music for her and she will respond and thank you for putting her in better spirits.
She will be even more impressed if you play one of her favorites and dance with her. She'll be amazed that you remembered the song she loves and since she'll already be in your arms, she'll probably kiss you!
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#4 Thank Her for the Little Things She Does
If she does something sweet or thoughtful for you, thank her! But also realize that not only is she sweet, but she may be sending you a signal that she would like the same thing done for her, from the heart.
I ask myself, "If someone did this for me, would it make me feel loved?" Because whatever makes me happy will probably also please someone else.
#5 Mail Her a Card
Do you want to tell her how much you love her, but you're not so good with words? You are not alone, and that's why the greeting card business is so huge.
So pick out a greeting card that will say it fofourr you. She'll be so surprised and touched by your thoughtfulness!! And she'll love it that you actually mailed it to her, especially if she's the one to open the mailbox.
Not in the romantic mood? Women also love it when a man can make them laugh! Pick out a funny card to send to her. Has she had a stressful week at work? Send her the card as a pick-me-up. This lets her know you notice and care.
#6 Share Fond Memories
When is the last time you shared a great memory from your wedding or a sentimental moment from one of your first dates together?
Remind her of those memories that have stayed with you and tell her why they stuck in your heart and mind. Sit down together and go through some old photos of those good times, possibly even bringing out the wedding album or pictures from the honeymoon.
Reminding her of why you fell in love with her in the first place is an important step towards renewing those feelings and making sparks fly again!
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#7 Make Her Breakfast In Bed
I know this sounds corny or cliché but if you feed her, she will think you are the greatest! Women love to be waited on, but rarely get it. Think about all the hundreds of meals she's made for you. It doesn't matter what you make for her, she will be thrilled that you did it!!
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#8 The Hair-Kiss-Hug Move!
Want her attention? Come up behind her (but don't scare her), without saying a word, move her hair away from the back of her neck and kiss her there, put your arms around her, hug her and hold her tight. Don't be in a hurry to let her go. Enjoy the moment.
She'll drop whatever she's doing and give you her full attention, maybe more! Of course, if you haven't done this in 20 years, she may be suspicious and wonder what you want, so try not to wait so long to do it.
#9 Pick a Chore She Hates and Do It For Her
Without being asked, do something for her that you know she hates doing. For example, if you know she hates doing the grocery shopping, get the list and do it for her. If there's no list, tell her you want to know what she needs so you can go the store this time.
Most women do most of the housecleaning, and your woman probably does too! Don't let her do all the work. Take it upon yourself to do some of the cleaning (for once) to show her you're trying to make things easier for her.
Women feel like you don't notice when the house is sparkling clean. They think you only notice when it's messy or unkempt. Each week, help her do the housecleaning. It won't kill you and the cleaning will get done much quicker when you share the load. This lets her know you appreciate a clean house and how much work it takes to keep it clean and shows you're on her team.
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#10 Fix It (Finally)!
Is there something around the house that she has asked you to fix so many times she's stopped asking because she figures it will never get done?
Most women don't like to nag. She'll ask you a few times to fix that door that won't shut, or put up the towel bar that came off the wall, or put up that shelf in the laundry room, but when something is not getting done, she may simply give up on you. And maybe that's what most men are waiting for, so they won't have to do the chore.
The last time you asked her to make your favorite meal, she made it, didn't she? Well, then, do this for her. Fix whatever it is she has asked you to fix. This will make her want to do more for you!
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