RAHA YA KUHONDOMOLA WOTE MUANDAANE

Wanawake wengi hulalamika kwamba hawalidhishwi na wenzi wao kimapenzi.ila amini nawaambieni 95% inasababishwa na wanawake wenyewe

Unakuta mdada umelala nae anakugeuzia mgongo .

sasa nakuandaaje hapo?

Yani unakuta janamke unalishikashika na kulipapasa kila sehemu ye kaganda tu hana response yoyote ile.ametulia kama gogo au boga vile.

Unakuta mwanamke unampapasa sehemu tofauti za mwili ila kaganda tu ata harespond

Hapo hapo unakuta hajanyoa minywele yake na hapo hapo kuoga hajaoga ukiuliza anakwambia nimeoga nyumbani,wanawake jamani mnatuboa sana hamjui tuu.

Na sisi tunataka raha na kulidhishwa kama nyie mnavyotaka tuwastareheshe tu..na sisi tunapenda sana kupata raha jamani.

Raha sio tu ile tukishawaingiza dushe na kumwaga hapana.raha ni pale tunapoandaana nikikushika hapa na wewe unashika pale.

Nikikuchezea hapa na wewe unachezea pale na sio nakupapasa na kukuchezea we umeganda tu unasikilizia utamu tu.

jifunzeni wanawake

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Raha Ilioje Siku ya Kwanza Kufanya Mapenzi

Usipokuwa makini unaweza kuligongesha siku ya kwanza tu!S3x mara ya kwanza ni uzoefu wa aina yake na hakuna kitu hufurahisha kama mnakutana wote ni bikira.

Hapa nazungumzia wale ambao amefunga ndoa tayari sizungumzii wale wanaoamua kufanya uasherati kwani ndoa ni baraka na kuwa na mume wau mke wa ujana wako ni baraka.
Je, ni mambo gani mwanaume au mwanamke ambaye ameolewa na yupo kwenye siku yake ya kwanza ya kuwa na tendo la ndoa anatakiwa kuzingatia?

MWANAUME
FAHAMU NDOTO ZAKE
Kila mwanamke ana ndoto siku moja kuwa na mume anayempenda na kumfanya kutimiza ndoto zake za kuwa mke na kuhudumiwa kama mke idara zote.
Ni jambo la msingi kwa mwanaume mpya kuwa na ufahamu wa mwanamke aliyemuoa je ni wa kisasa (contemporary) au si wa kisasa (traditional) na kwamba je response yake kwenye suala la mahaba itakuwaje.
Unavyoweza kumtimizia ndoto zake (kimahaba) ndivyo unazidi kuwa karibu na kufungua hisia zake


JE, NI BIKIRA
Suala la kuwa bikira au kutokuwa bikira halina umuhimu wowote na si tatizo lako. Pia haina haja wewe kuwa na msisitizo wa kutaka kujua kwa nini si bikira hapo si mahali pake kujadili sababu hata hivyo kama ni bikira ni vizuri pia kujua kwani kutakuwa na maumivu kidogo na ikiwezekana hata yeye mwanamke kutoa damu kidogo ingawa si kila mwanamke bikira hutoa damu.

MPE UPENDO KABLA YA KUMTAMANI
Mwanaume na mwanamke ni tofauti sana linapokuja suala la tendo la ndoa kwani mwanaume hutoa upendo ili kupewa sex na mwanamke hutoa sex ili kupewa upendo hii ina maana kwamba kwa mwanamke upendo kwanza na kwa mwanaume sex kwanza, bila kuwa makini kufahamu hii siri mnaweza kuchanganya mambo.
Mke atajiweka tayari (open) pale tu wewe mwanaume utakapoonesha upendo, caring, affections nk.
Kama akili yako na mawazo yako yapo kwenye matiti yake tu na pale chini basi hutafika popote kwani unahitaji kumpa upendo kabla ya kumtamani.

USIWE NA HARAKA:
Mwanamke huchukua muda mwingi au mrefu kuwa tayari kwa sex na akishafika anachukua muda mrefu kurudi kwenye hali yake ya kawaida.
Hivyo usiwe na haraka kama afande.
Take it slow
Au hakikisha ameonesha dalili zote kwamba yupo tayari.

MUULIZE NAMNA GANI NA WAPI
Mara nyingi kwenye shughuli za mahaba wanaume wote ni ma-genius, ndio wanaoshika usukani.
Jambo la msingi ni kukumbuka kwamba kila mwanamke ni tofauti na hata mwanamke huyo mmoja anakuwa tofauti kwa siku kadhaa katika mwezi mmoja.
Kuna siku ukishika matiti husisimka na kuna siku ukishika matiti atajisikia kuumia hivyo using’ang’anie au kuanza kubabaika.
Ni vizuri kumuuliza kitu gani anapenda na ufanye namna gani anaweza kukueleza kwa maneno au kwa ishara.

AKISEMA HAPANA HAINA SHIDA
Kwa kuwa ni mara ya kwanza anaweza akasema hapana, hivyo usiumize kichwa, inawezekana anaona aibu au yupo MP, kumbuka yeye kwanza na si wewe.
Ni rahisi sana kumvua nguo mwanaume yeyote kwa ajili ya sex hata kama hamjuani au hata kama anatoka sayari nyingine ila si mwanamke.

USIJIBU JEURI
Unaweza kuulizwa swali ambalo linakufanya ushangae hata hivyo uwe na subiri na usijibu kijeuri kwani unaweza kumpiga password kwenye feelings zake na ikawa shughuli nzito na mwili mzima ukaji lock ushindwe kufanya chochote.

UZAZI WA MPANGO NI JUKUMU LAKO MWANAUME
Kutofahamu njia za kujikinga na mwanamke kupata mimba kama hamuhitaji kuzaa watoto 35 ni kuonesha mwanaume yupo caring na pia upo selfish.
Siamini kama mnaweza kufika hapa kabla ya kujadili masuala ya uzazi, watoto, mimba na lini muwe na watoto.

MKUMBATIE, BUSU NA AWE KARIBU
Kwa mwanamke tendo la ndoa si sex peke yake bali ni pamoja na hugs, kissing, cuddling na kupeana joto kwa foreplay ya kufa mtu.
Onesha jinsi unavyomuhitaji kwani kuna msema kwamba
“The way man make love demonstrates his character”
kama unamjali mke wako mpya basi kitandani ni mahali ambapo unaweza kuonesha mara 1,000 kwamba unamjali na kinyume na hapo wewe ni
Selfish
Pleasure seeking,
Narrow focused,
Hivyo kiss, touch and feel.

MWANAMKE:

MTAZAMO:
Mwonekano wa nje (appearance) mara nyingi huwezesha wanaume kujipiga switch ya sex haraka iwezekanavyo, pia chemistry ya mwili nni jambo la msingi sana ni kama asset kwa ajili nya sex hata hivyo kwa kuwa na tendo la ndoa zuri siku ya kwanza jambo la msingi kwa mwanamke ni mtazamo wako kuhusu sex.
Ni muhimu sana kujiamini kwamba unaweza na pia mume wako atakufurahia na kwamba anakuhitaji na upo tayari kusaidiana kuhakikisha wote mnakuwa na wakati mzuri pamoja na ni jukumu lenu wote na si kulala kama gogo lisilo na feelings ukiamini mambo yataenda sawa.

USAFI
Ni vizuri sana kuzingatia suala la usafi kwani ni jambo linalopendeza kunukia vizuri katika harufu ya asili ya mwili wako.
Kwani ukiwa unavutia na mwenye kunukia vizuri basi mwanaume atakuwa crazy tu na atafanya kila analoweza kuhakikisha anakupa kile unastahili.

MAANDALIZI
Jambo la msingi ni kwa wewe mwanamke kuwa wazi kuonge na kuongea na kuongea na kuongea, yaani jiweke huru kuwa wazi kuongea kila kitu.
Kumbuka kubusiana huja baada ya kuongea kwani maneno matamu huleta hamu ya kuwa karibu zaidi kimwili.

KAMA UPO MP
Wanaume wengi huwa hawajali kama mwanamke yupo period au la hata hivyo suala hili hufanya mwanamke mwenyewe asijisikie vizuri ( embarrassed).
Ni vizuri sana kuwa na discussion na wote mfanye kile mmekubaliana kama hapana iwe hapana kwa wote na kama ndiyo iwe ndiyo kwa wote na si vinginevyo.

USIMUHUKUMU
Wanawake wengi wanaamini mwanaume lazima awe kiongozi linapokuja suala la sex hata hviyo wapo wanaume ambao huhitaji ujasiri wa mwanamke ili kila kitu kiende sawa.
Hivyo ukiona mume wako haoneshi dalili ya kwamba anaweza kuanzisha chochote ni vizuri ukachukua jukumu na katika kuchukua jukumu isifanye kwa dhihaka hadi kuumiza utu wake.
Anyway huyo ni mume wako, mwili ni mali yako na tendo la ndoa ni haki yako na mali yenu na kila kitu unafanya ni Baraka.

KILELENI
Kufika kileleni au kutokufika yote hutegemea wewe na mwenzi wako.
Ufike kileleni usifike jambo la msingi ni wewe ku-enjoy siku yako ya kwanza kuwa na mume wako na zaidi bado ni grade one so bado safari ni ndefu hadi kuwa na PhD ya mahaba kama mke na mume na ndipo utafurahia kufika kilele.

KIASI GANI
Ukweli hakuna kanuni ni kiasi gani inatosha kwani hakuna formula ya how much is too much or too little.

MWAMBIA “NAKUPENDA”
Wakati mwingine mzuri wa kumwambie mume wako nakupenda ni wakati wa s3x na hapo itasaidia kuweka memories kwenye ubongo wake na hatimaye unaweza kuwa na better sex and fulfilling.

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Kwa Nini Wanawake Wanakataa Kusimama Ukianza Approach Kwao?

Ishawahi kukutokea mara moja au nyingine. 

Unajaribu kuapproach mwanamke lakini pindi unapomwita ama kutaka kuchukua atenshen yake ghafla anakupuuza hata kabla hajakwambia jina lake ama kujientroduce vizuri. 

Well, hili ni jambo la kawaida ambalo linatokea mara moja au nyingine kwa mwanaume yeyote. Lakini kama hii ndio imekuwa tabia yako ya kuwa kila wakati unapuuzwa na wanawake wakati ambapo unajaribu kuwasimamisha au kuongea nao basi kuna tatizo.

Ok. Unaweza kuwa unajua mbinu zote za kuapproach mwanamke, michongo yote umeihifadhi kwa akili lakini bado kuna kitu unashindwa kukitimiza. 

Kitu chenyewe ni kuwa wanaume wengi hukifanya bila wao kufahamu ya kuwa ni makosa makubwa kwa mwanamke.... 

...kudhani ya kuwa mwanamke atasimama na kuwasikiliza kulingana na maneno wanayoyatoa kutoka kwa vinywa vyao. 

Ukweli ni kuwa mwanamke hatosimama kulingana na maneno yako unayoyatoa mara ya kwanza. 

Bali hutumia fikra na uingiliaji wa mawazo ambayo ameyajenga kulingana na matukio ya zamani aliyoyapitia. 

Jambo ambalo unafaa kufahamu kuhusu wanawake ni kuwa wanajenga uingilianaji wa mawazo ya jinsi ya kuwatizama wanaume kulingana na mahusiano yao ya zamani na wanaume. 


Kulingana na wanawake, mwanaume ambaye anajilazimisha kuongea naye, mwanaume ambaye hana thamani katika maisha yake--- kv mwanaume ambaye havutiwi naye-- huwa na tabia moja ambayo wanaonyesha wakati wanapowaaproach....tabia ya kujipaza juu wakati wa kuongea. 

Kwa kupunguza maneno mengi ni kuwa wanaume wenye tabia hii kwa kawaida wanapenda kuongea kwa haraka. 

(Wanaume wasiokuwa na thamani kwa mwanamke ni wale wanaopenda kuongea kwa haraka kwa kuwa wamezoea kukatizwa katikati wakati wanapoongea ama kupuuzwa na wenzao wanapoongea) 

So wewe una hii tabia? Je wewe unajiingiza katika kategoria ambayo wanaonekana kutokuwa na thamani mbele ya wanawake? 

Na kama hauna tabia hii mbona unashindwa kuwasimamisha wanawake pindi unapowaaproach? 

Well. Uzuri ni kuwa nimekuja na mwongozo na mwongozo wenyewe ni wa haraka ambao nimekuwa nikiusistiza katika machapisho yetu ya awali. 

1. Tumia mistari yako pindi unapochukua atenshen yake ya macho 
Hii ni rahisi. Pindi ambapo utaiteka atenshen yake kwa kutumia macho anza kutumia mistari yako na michomgo yako bila kusita sita. Huku kutampa sababu kuu ya kwa nini anafaa kuongea na wewe. 

2. Chukua muda wako wote kuongea na yeye kwa kujivuta 
Pindi ambapo utakuwa umeiteka atenshen yake ya macho usiwe na pupa ya kuongea haraka haraka kwani atakupuuza. Chukua muda wako wote wa kuyavuta maneno yako ili kuonyesha ya kuwa huna tamaa. 
Mwanzo kuongea kwa mvuto ni moja ya silaha kuu ambayo kila mwanaume anafaa kuwa nayo. 

Upo!? Hizi ni mbinu ambazo ukizitumia vizuri hutakuwa na wasiwasi wa kuwa mwanamke hatosimama wakati ambapo unawaaproach. 

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Kona ya Penzi: Jinsi ya kumjibu mpenzi anapouliza ‘Unanipenda Kiasi Gani?’

Wana jopo, karibuni kwenye jamvi letu jipya lililotandikwa kwenye kona maridhawa ya mapenzi. 

Hii ni kona iliyoandaliwa maalum kwa ajili ya kujuzana mambo mawili matatu kuhusu masuala ya mahusiano ya mapenzi ambayo ‘yanafanya dunia izunguke’ bila sisi kujua tunazunguka nayo.

Wapo waliowahi kusema mapenzi ni ‘ukichaa’ kwa sababu kila wakitafakari baadhi ya matukio waliyoyafanya kutokana tu na kupenda wanaamini hawakuwa katika hali ya kawaida kiakili! Lakini wapo wanaoamini hakuna hisia nzuri na zenye busara iliyopitiliza kama hisia za mapenzi ambazo hazifichiki hata akipewa ‘bingwa wa kuficha siri za dunia’.

Anyways, tuweke kando hizo blabla… leo tuangazie swali ambalo karibu kila mmoja aliwahi kuuliza ama kuulizwa na mpenzi wake au hata mtu anayemshawishi kuwa mchumba.  “Baby, unanipenda kiasi gani?” ni swali la mtihani ambao ulishavuja karibu kwa kila mtu, lakini hata anayeliuliza huwa hajui majibu.

Hivyo, wa kuliwekea alama hutegemea tu kile anachosikia, hata kama sio sahihi anaweza kuweka alama kubwa ya ‘vema’.

Wakati unajibu swali hili, nakushauri usihangaike hata kidogo kutafuta vipimo unavyovijua wewe hata kama ni kipimo cha ukubwa wa dunia na bahari zote. Picha itakayojengeka kichwani kwa unayemwambia itakuwa ya ‘kusadikika tu’.

Usilijibu swali hili kama unavyojibu maswali mengine ya kawaida anayokuuliza, jaribu kutengeneza kwanza mazingira mazuri ya haraka ya kuishika akili yake. Mvute zaidi umakini uwe kwako. Macho yako na muonekano wako uonekane kweli unataka kujibu swali muhimu la mapenzi sio mtihani wa mwalimu ‘Kabuche’. Lol. Hapo utakuwa umetengeneza mazingira ya ushindi.

Mwite jina zuri mwanzo, mfanye ajisikie anaongea na mpenzi, kama mko wawili mshike mkono taratibu, nyuso zitazamane… macho yako yatakusaidia kuzungumza zaidi kinachoelezwa na mdomo.

Kama wewe ni muongeaji sana, sauti yako ishuke kidogo iwe ‘romantic’. Hii ni kwa sababu moyo wa muuliza swali hupanuka na akili yake hutamani kusikia neno zuri sana kutoka kwako ambalo hata yeye halijui… hivyo inategemea utamwambia nini.

Angalia baadhi ya majibu yanayoweza kufaa, sio lazima uyakopi haya yangu… chukua kama mfano.

Tafadhali sana narudia, usitafute kufananisha nyota, bahari, mchanga na vingine, hii ni dunia ya dijitali na hiyo ilikuwa mifano ya zamani, huenda isimsisimue sana. Ni kama stori ya kunywa maji na kukuona kwenye bilauli!

“Baby, ingawa hakuna kifaa cha kupimia kiasi cha mapenzi, naamini mapenzi hayapimwi kwa maneno bali vitendo. Na hakuna ajuae kipimo cha tendo zaidi ya mtendewa. Kipimo cha mapenzi yangu kwako ni wewe… matendo yangu yanaongea, naomba unipe alama nazostahili. Lakini naamini nakupenda kiasi kisichoelezeka lakini kile kinachougusa moyo wako ni sehemu tu.”

“Baby, nakupenda kiasi kwamba kwamba naamini siwezi kupenda zaidi ya hapa.” Hapa ni kama unasema kuna kipimo na ushafika mwisho wa alama husika.

“Naamini ni neno ‘upendo’ pekee linaloweza kuupima upendo wangu juu yako. Siwezi kusema ni kiasi gani kwa sababu ni vigumu kusimulia kwa uhalisia maumivu ya kidonda, lakini ninaamini hiki ninachokisikia juu yako ndio maana halisi na sahihi kabisa ya neno upendo uliokomaa.”

Hata hivyo, majibu kutoka kwa mtu asiyependa kweli yanaweza kumuumbua tu hata akiyasema vyema kwa sababu macho yanayongea zaidi ya mdomo kwenye mapenzi. Chukua hii.

Maneno matamu yaendane na matendo matamu, hapo ndio utaona kweli mapenzi hayana kiwango cha elimu.

Kumbuka kuchagua maneno kutakusaidia kudumisha penzi lako, usiropoke tu majibu kisa umemzoea mwenzio ama unataka kuonekana mjuaji sana, itakugharimu. Katika mapenzi kila alama ni muhimu kuliko hata umuhimu unaoujua, hata kicheko chako tu kinaweza kushusha alama. Beba mapenzi kwa umakini wa hali ya juu zaidi ya kutembea juu ya trey la mayai.

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It’s Not OK To Push Them To Change

If our partners are unwilling to change their attitudes, being pushy probably won’t help. In this situation, it’s up to us to decide whether we’re able to live with their behaviors or if we want to end the relationship. “The goal is to get them on board and motivated about changing or else you’ll just be nagging them,” 

However, don’t jump to the conclusion that you should end your relationship because your partner’s doing something you don’t think you can change. At least try asking first. “I do a great deal of couples’ therapy and am always amazed at how partners will try to change for each other when asked with love and patience,” 

If you’re respectful about asking for the change and make it clear how important these changes are to you, you may be surprised by how much they’re willing to accommodate you.

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Does your instinct tell you your lover is cheating on you?

 Use these 18 discreet ways on how to catch a cheating partner to catch them red handed!

Is your partner cheating on you?

There are just two ways to get the nagging worry out of your head. One, you talk about it with your lover and get a convincing answer from them. Or secondly, you sneak around discreetly and try to get some proof of your partner’s philandering ways *if any*. 

If you feel insecure in a relationship, always talk to your partner and tell them what you feel. Sometimes, it may just be a silly misunderstanding. And communication always helps sort things out, even if one of you is on the verge of looking out for an affair. But if your doubts don’t get erased even after the conversation, then perhaps, the only way to get the real answers is by snooping around and looking for clues when your partner is too busy doing their own thing. 

18 ingenious ways to catch a cheating partner

Confronting a serial cheater or a guiltless cheater never helps, because no matter how much you cry or remind them how much you love them, they’re just too selfish to think about anyone but themselves. So instead of confronting your lover every night, take it easy and let your partner assume that all is well and forgotten. 

After all, you can’t catch a cheating lover when they’re being cautious and on guard. Just pretend like everything’s normal and watch how your partner behaves around you over the next few weeks. 

Once your partner thinks you don’t suspect them anymore, use these 18 signs and ways to catch a cheating partner to catch your lover in the act! 

#1 Watch the signs.

 Do you see a change in your partner’s behavior recently? Have they started working out, dressing better, or started using a new seductive intense evening perfume? They may have no reason for the changes, and almost always, these changes may seem very spontaneous. 

#2 Drop by unannounced. 

Every now and then, drop by unannounced to their workplace or come back home early. Don’t make it obvious that you’re just spying on them. Instead, always have a great excuse to walk in unannounced. If your partner is cheating on you, the first thing they’d do *instead of welcoming you with a smile* is hide something or appear surprised or even angry! 

#3 Check their recycle bin. 

The garbage is a great place to dispose of things. And sometimes, it also has a lot of clues. If your partner is on the computer often, check the computer’s recycle bin often. Chances are, there may be another person’s photo or a little snippet of information that could be of some use. 

#4 Snoop on their phone.

 Does your partner carry their cell phone with them wherever they go, even if it’s a trip to the loo? If that’s happening in your relationship, there’s a good chance your partner’s up to something. Take a peek into their cell phone when you get the chance, especially when they’ve put the phone on charge. 

Erased phone logs, a password protected phone, several calls to the same unknown numbers, or phone bills without detailed call information are all good signs that your partner is trying to hide something.  

#5 Spontaneous sex. 

This works better if you’re a girl, and dating a guy. If your boyfriend or husband comes home late from any unexpected delay, try to have spontaneous sex with them when they get back home. If your guy gets angry, pushes you away or tries avoiding it at all costs, chances are, he may be exhausted down there. He could always wash himself up before getting home, but getting it up immediately and blowing a huge load, that’s not the easiest thing to do! 

#6 Follow after a fight. 

Most cheating partners intentionally try to pick fights, slam the door and walk away, because it makes a great excuse to slip out of the house and meet their adulterous lover. If your partner’s been picking fights and walking out of the house often recently, try to follow them on the pretense of apologizing *if they see you following them*.  

#7 Change your sleeping habits. 

If your partner’s cheating on you, their sleeping habits may change almost overnight. They may stay up longer using the excuse of work, or you may catch them sneaking around the house late at night. Pretend like you’re asleep as soon as you hit the bed, and try to see if your partner’s up to something. Do they get out of bed for long periods of time? 

And it’s not just late nights you need to think about. Some cheating partners may even wake up really early and get on the phone, especially if they realize you suspect them. 

#8 Does your partner want space? 

Space is something all of us need in a relationship, whether we accept it or not. But has your partner started getting fiercely protective about their space recently? Do they hate answering questions about where they’ve been or what they’ve been up to? It’s definitely a small warning sign.  

#9 They get jumpy. 

Try walking in on your partner when they least expect it without announcing yourself, especially if they’ve been by themselves for a while. Does your partner act jumpy or nervous when you walk in on them, especially if they’re over the phone or in front of their computer? They were probably doing something and they don’t want you to know what it was. 

#10 Changes in schedule. 

All of a sudden, your partner may stay out a lot of nights on work, or have a lot of get-togethers on their social calendar with their friends. If your partner doesn’t ever invite you with their friends, or if they claim to be very busy working and still look fresh and happy when they get home, your partner’s probably up to something.  

#11 The phone etiquette. 

Your partner suddenly needs a lot of space while talking over the phone. They either sound awkward or they walk away from you to the next room while talking over the phone with a few people. You may even find text messages from random numbers with random texts in them. 

Remember, when people cheat, they could always store the other lover’s number under another name, and use code words to interact with each other when they miss each other! 

#12 Gadgets. 

Your partner has changed most of their passwords, even if you thought you knew all of them. And even when you ask them for the new password, they make an excuse to hide it from you. And sometimes, you may see that they position their computer facing away from you, and they would never do that before.  

#13 Grooming habits. 

Hitting the gym, wearing new clothes and perfume are all signs your partner wants to look better. But are they going overboard with their appearances? Has your partner started grooming themselves down there meticulously all of a sudden, even though they aren’t keen on doing something with you? 

#14 Sneaking away. 

Does your partner sneak out of the house every now and then, using the silliest of excuses? “I’m driving down to the store to get something…” “My friends are catching up around the corner…” “I’m bored, I’m going for a drive…” or something along those lines? 

That’s alright though. But when you offer to tag along, what does your partner say? Do they make an excuse to go alone? That’s fishy, don’t you think?  

4 shady and sneaky unethical ways to catch a cheating lover

Now the earlier 14 signs would definitely help you find out if your partner’s cheating on you with someone else. But if you want to nail them, you’re going to have to catch them in the act. And there’s no way you can do that unless you walk in on your partner with the person they’re cheating on you with. But if you do choose to go spy-mode and use a few unethical ways, here are four ways to nail your partner’s cheating backside in no time. 

But try these ways only if you’re already certain your partner’s cheating on you. These steps are great to catch them, but if they aren’t cheating on you and it was just a false alarm, your partner may feel extremely hurt by your actions!  

#15 Hidden cameras. 

Place a spycam in the room where your partner hangs out most often when they want alone time. If they’re over the phone or doing some funny business behind your back, you’ll know soon enough. 

#16 Create a fake profile. 

Create a fake profile and log on to websites that promote cheating spouses and see if your partner’s using one of them. Or for starters, just create a fake facebook profile and add a lot of random friends to make your account seem legitimate. 

And then, send an invite to your partner and get friendly with them. And over a few days or weeks, start flirting with them and see how they respond to you. Are they interested in meeting up or hooking up?  

#17 Keyloggers. 

Keyloggers are software that you can download off the net *some free and some for a price*. Some of these keyloggers, especially the paid versions, can be installed in a computer and the person using it would never know it’s running in the background. 

These programs can record whatever you want, the passwords they use, the letters they type, the pages they visit, or even record a video of the screen as they use the computer. You can also download a few paid apps over your phone and install a secret app in your partner’s phone to keep track of their calls too.  

#18 GPS device. 

Are you the one who wants to catch your partner red handed? Then the stalker mode may work for you! Pick up a tiny GPS device that can be fixed to the underside of your partner’s car. You can track their movements and pounce on them when their pants are around their ankles in a sleazy motel out of town!  

Use these 18 ways on how to catch a cheating partner, and there’s no way a cheater can get away with their adulterous ways. But remember, don’t use the last four ways unless you’re certain your partner’s cheating on you already and you just want to confront them in the act!

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Mawazo yalikuja kufutika baada ya muumini mmoja wa kike akiwa anatoa sadaka huku mpasuo wake ulikuwa umefija karibu na mapaja!??..

Sasa endelea nayo...

Nilibaki nimemtazama huyo binti nayeye alinitazama huku akibetua midomo yake, nilitabasamu  kidogo na kisha niliendelea na ibada yangu. Baada ya kumaliza Ibada nilitoka nje ya kanisa na kuelekea kwenye chumba changu, nikiwa natembea bila kujua ili wala lile mara nilisikia sauti ya kike ikiniita,
'Davi, davi mbona siku hizi umebadilika hivyo'. Ilikuwa ni sauti ambayo nikihisi kama nahifahamu vizuri hivyo ilinibidi nigeuke nitazame ni nani aliyekuwa akiniita. Kitendo cha kugeuka nilimuona binti ambaye nilikuwa nimemuona kanisani akiwa ananisogelea kwa madaha nilibaki nimeduwaa baada ya sura hiyo kuniijia.
'Suzi vipi mbona unakuja kanisani ukiwa hivyo si unajua hapa ni sehemu ya ibada'. Niliongea huku nikijifanya mtu mwenye dini sana.
'Mmmmh mimi nafanana wewe yaani unavaa hivyo ila unapenda sana tamu na leo hii lazima unipatie maana nimezunguka kutafuta kanisa lako maana nimeletwa huku kikazi ila kesho naondoka'. Suzi aliongea akiwa ananisogelea kwa ukaribu kabisa.
'Ishia hapohapo si unaona tuko kwenye uwazi'. Nilijikuta nikiropoka kwa haraka baada ya kuona Suzi akija kunikumbatia.
'Sawa ila naomba twende pamoja kwenye hotel fulani kubwa'. Suzi aliongea huku akiwa ameshika kiuno chake na huku kichuguu chake kikiwa kimebetuka kwa juu.
'Sawa kwamaana hapa sijajulikana hivyo itakuwa vyepesi ila subili kwanza niende nivue hizi nguo za kazi'. Niliongea huku nikiwa natembea kwa haraka nikiwa naelekea kwenye chumba changu.
  Baada ya kufika nilivua joho la upadri na kuvaa nguo za kawaida na kisha nilitoka nje baada ya kutoka nilifunga mlango na kumfuata Suzi alipokuwa na kwenda nae katika gari lake ambalo alikuwa amekuja nalo. Tulienda katika hotel iliyokuwa kubwa katika sehemu hiyo ya jiji la Arusha.

Tulichukua chumba na mlipaji alikuwa ni Suzi baada ya kulipa nilienda nae mpaka kwenye chumba ambacho tulikuwa tumechukua. Safari hii baada ya kufika kila mtu alivua nguo zake na kwenda mpaka bafuni kila mtu alikuwa na hamu na mwenzake, tulioga tukiwa tunapapasana kila sehemu ya mwili wake. Kitendo cha kupapasana bafuni Suzi alidata na kutaka nimpatie tamu hukohuko bafuni sikuona kazi nilimkalisha chini na kumpa mbo* angu ili aiweke mdomoni.
 Suzi aliramba mbo* angu huku akiwa anatelezesha mikononi kwa mate yake,
'Mmmmmmh'. Niliguna baada ya kusikia raha sana nilimnyanyua suzi alipokuwa amechuchumaa na kumwekea staili ya kuchuma mboga na kuanza kuramba kum* ake alianza kulalama kwa mahaba sikujali hilo niliendelea kunyonya mpaka kisimi chake kilipokuwa chekundu.
 Hapo ndo niliweka mbo* angu baada ya kuweka niliendelea kupampu mara kadhaa kipindi nikiwa napampu nilianza kusikia maumivu fulani kwenye mbo* angu lakini sikujali ilo maana maumivu yalikuwa kwa mbali hivyo niliendelea mpaka nilipomkojolea Suzi kwenye kum* ake.
 Baada ya kumaliza hicho kitendo Suzi alinishukuru sana na kunipa kiasi cha pesa huku akiniadi kuwa hata akiolewa hatakuwa anakuja nampa tamu yangu maana najua kumpagawisha vilivyo, baada ya kusema hivyo nilitabasamu tu. Kumbe mabinti sio watu wa kuamini maana kama kuna kijana aliweza kumpatia tamu yake na ikamuingia kisawasawa uwa hasau kabisa hata akikutana nae lazima akubari tu kwa kukumbuka alichokuwa amepewa.

Baada ya kunipa kiasi cha pesa, nilitoka nae na kupanda gari lake aliendesha mpaka kanisani baada ya kunifikisha nilienda moja kwa moja mpaka chumbani kwangu na kujilaza. Nikiwa nimejilaza mlango wangu ulifunguliwa pasipo kugongewa hodi, aliingia mwanaume akiwa na masista fulani wakiwa wanaonekana wenye wasiwasi,
'Kijana wewe ndo umeletwa hapa kuwa father au'. Aliongea huku akiwa anaonekana ana jaziba sana.
'Ndindio mimi kwani vipi'. Niliongea kwa kusitasita baada ya kumuona mwanaume huyo akiwa anaonekana mwenye hasira.
'Sasa kijana naona umeshindwa kazi maana siku mbili hizi umeshazalilisha kazi yako sasa nakupa masaa matatu naomba uondoke katika mkoa huu na kama hutagoma nitakuitia polisi'. Mwanaume huyo aliongea huku akiwa anabofyabofya simu yake.
'Samahani baba ni shetani aliyekuwa ameniingia'. Nilimsihi sana lakini hakuonekana kusikia, bali alinipiga kikumbo na kuingia chumbani na kuanza kufoka.
'Sasa nataka nitazame video zako kwa maana kila chumba huwa tumaweka kamera ya kunasa watu pasipo mtu kuonwa.
 Baada ya kusema hivyo alisogeza pazia iliyokuwa karibu na kitanda changu na kutoa kitu kama kamera na kukiwasha.

Niliona aibu na kutoka nimekimbia katika sehemu hiyo nilienda kwa spidi mpaka nilipofika nje na kuchukua pikipiki 'kijana nipeleke mwaroni haraka sana'. Niliongea huku nikimsisitiza aongeze spidi na kweli muda mchache nilikuwa nimeishawadia mpaka mwaroni nilimpatia hela yake na baada ya kushuka katika sehemu hiyo nilianza kutazama kila sehemu.

Niliweza kuona wavuvi wakiwa wanajiandaa kwenda ziwani ilinibidi niwafuate 
'Samahani vipi naomba mnipeleke kwenye kisiwa kile'. Niliongea huku nikiwa nimewaoneshea kidole katika sehemu ambayo nilitaka kwenda. Cha ajabu walionekana kucheka na kuanza kunong'onezana,
'Msiwe na shida na pesa nitawapa ila naomba mnipeleke kwenye kisiwa hicho'. Safari hii niliongea nikiwa nawasisitiza.

Baada ya kuwasisitiza sana walikubari na kunitaka niingie kwenye mtumbwi wao, nikiwa nataka kuingia nilihisi kubanwa na mkojo hivyo nilitoka kwa spidi na kwenda kujisaidia nikiwa najaribu kukojoa nilihisi maumivu makali sana na pia nilikojoa mkojo kidogo sana nilijikaza lakini niliogopa zaidi baada ya kuona usaha ukinitoka kwenye mbo* angu. Ilinibidi niache kukojoa baada ya kuitwa na wavuvi nilienda moja kwa moja mpaka kwenye mtubwi huo na kupanda.
Safari ilianza tulienda kwa umbali mrefu baada ya kufika katikati ya mto ambao ulionekana kuwa mkubwa wavuvi walinikaba na kunisaula nguo zangu.
 Baada ya kunivua nilipigwa kofi kali sana na niliweza kuona mmoja wao akisaula nguo zake na kuchomoa mbo* yake na wengine wakiwa wamenishika kwa nguvu sana. Nilijua wanachotaka kufanya ilinibidi nianze kujitetea kiume nilijirusharusha na hatimae mmoja wao nilimng'ata kidole na kutoka nacho kitendo cha kumng'ata aliniachia huku akipiga kelele za maumivu, wengine walibaki wakishang'aa kuona kitendo hicho mmoja wao alitafuta panga na kutaka kunikata, ilinibidi nijirushe kwenye maji baada ya kujirusha tu.

Wavuvi hawakukubali kuona mimi nawatoka nikiwa mzima kwani na wao walinifuata katika sehemu nikiyokuwa nimedondokea, walijua kuogelea kunizidi maana walipiga kasia kwa haraka sana.
 Nikiwa nimepoteza tumaini mara alikuja mtubwi mwingine ukiwa na mabinti tu, baada ya kuniona walinibeba na kuniweka kwenye mtubwi wao na huku wale wavuvi wakiwa wamezama ili wasiweze kuonekana na hao mabinti.

Baada ya kupewa nguo fulani, wasichana hao walibaki wakiwa wamenitazama pasipo hata kuongea na mimi!!!??...

 ____MWISHO____

MSIMU WA KWANZA UMEISHIA HAPO, USIKOSE MSIMU WA PILI ILI UJUE DAVID ALIPELEKWA WAPI NA MAISHA YAKE YALIKUWAJE...

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